
The way platonic relationships develop into a romantic one is kind of interesting. Here's how everything develops, eeek! Haha.
- Sampling: contains aspects of the selection process
- Bargaining: determining the kinds of rewards you may expect and the kinds of costs that will be incurred
- Commitment: a person gives up other relationships in favor of a particular one
- Institutionalization: two people formally ratify their commitment. This stage is not really a process but more of an event
- Reduction of Tolerance - people begin to change their orientation from we to I. The relationship begins to show much less open discussion.
- Drifting Apart - people begin to lose interest in the opinions and feelings of the other. Soon they begin to avoid each other.
- Ending - both parties seek to bring a formal end to the relationship.
Descriptiveness rather than evaluation
Spontaneity rather than manipulation
Provisionalism rather dogmatism
Equality rather and superiority
Openess and trust
Celebrate differences! :)
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